Thank you for valuable remarks.
I have no much time and I tried to solve the problem for short time (it took me 30 minutes to 1 hour intensive thinking) it is the reason for my mistake.
I tried to say if two of the sides of ABC are equal a=b for example - it is easy to prove ABC with required properties is equaliteral.
Proof:
1. AMP is same as CNP (by three equal sides).
2. From 1 follows for angles A, C: A=C.
3. But a=b => A=B.
4. From 2), 3) follows A=B=C => ABC, equaliteral.
Q.E.D.
What about my second problem? I think it is very diffcult

but I believe we all together may solve it.